What is Kinksy

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Welcome to Kinksy, the kink dating app made for kinksters, by kinksters. We match you with people who share your kinks: With over 50 kinks to choose from, you’ll match with others who understand you and share your interests. Want to control who can communicate with you? We offer you the freedom to allow only intro messages, likes, or both! Whether you’re looking for a long-term relationship or a play partner, Kinksy has your needs at heart.

Privacy & Control

Your preferences and privacy come first. You decide where you want to connect: in your city, across your country, within your continent, or globally. To keep things private, every chat on Kinksy is protected with encrypted messaging, so your conversations stay between you and your match. And when it comes to location, you’re always in control: you set your own location, and it’s never shown exactly.

Our Mission

Kinksy gives you exactly what you need to find and connect with other Kinksters just like you. Below is a breakdown of our features:

Explore & Connect

  • • Choose from 50+ kinks to find others who share your specific interests
  • • Specify whether you’re looking for a relationship, a play partner, or both
  • • Match locally, or explore connections within your country, continent, or globally

Customise Your Messaging

  • • Set your boundaries with flexible message controls
  • • Choose how others can reach out:
  • • Intro messages only – get a personalised message before matching
  • • Likes only – let people express interest before messaging
  • • Likes & intros – open up more ways to connect

Privacy & Freedom

  • • Encrypted messaging for total privacy
  • • Stay anonymous — you decide what to share
  • • Quick signup with just an email (encrypted so even staff can't see it)

Why You’ll Love Kinksy

  • • Everyone has at least one photo and some basic info
  • • Built for authentic connections within the kink community
  • • Connect without judgment and explore new dynamics safely

What Makes Kinksy Special

Find people with your kink

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Specific Kinks

Choose from our extensive list of Kinks.

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International

Available around the world.

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Safe

Stay as anonymous as you like. Customize your message settings freely.

Our Blog Posts

Read about connecting with partners in the Kink space!